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Dave and I were married in August of 2005, not long after our first anniversary in October, Mitch came along, then about two years after that in July 08, Monte joined us. Number three, Annabel, came on to the scene March 2011.They all fill us with joy. Life has been a wonderful adventure.

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Showing posts with label Hillari's thoughts. Show all posts
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Friday, June 12, 2009

My Grandma's legacy


What a women my grandmother was, or is would be more correct. I have felt a renewal of my testimony that there is life after this one. My grandmother graduated Earth life (as my Uncle put it). I think she finished with honors. She left this life quickly and painlessly in her home with her husband, my terrific grandpa at her side.

My grandmother gave all of her kids and grandkids a unique and dry sense of humor. She would always be making us laugh at everything especially ourselves. She set a great example of loving your family no matter what. She has taught me through her stories and my mom's that I need to take the time to have fun with my kids and be sure to be goofy. She had such faith and left that testimony with all her family who listened. She showed me what an eternal marriage can be like by the marriage she and my grandpa have. She has taught me humility. She and grandpa has never tried to aquire money and things, they just worked hard and enjoyed a simple life. My grandma has inspired me to be less of a complainer. She had been legally blind since age eight and I never knew it to hold her back. She never let it hold her back. One of my grandpa's first coments after she passed was, "Now she can see."

Her funeral was wonderful. The talks were great. I really liked my mom's words about all the traditional things grandma didn't do as a mother but all the extrodinary things she did do. I loved her stories of prayer and how patient my grandma was with her kids. I really liked the letter from my Grandma that my Aunt Colleen read about comparing knitting to life. I am glad we can go back and fix errors we made. My Grandma was important to so many and I guess I thought she would never die but, in a real way she doesn't. My grandpa reminded us when we visited him a week later that Grandma is still busy and still lives. He knows he will see her again. For now though, I will miss her.


























Spa Night
















I had to post some pictures from a spa night we had with the Beehive girls (12 & 13 year old girls at church). I knew they would love to have these pictures circulating. These girls do not need a spa night. they are naturally beautiful.

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Easter, a time to gain forgiveness

So, I wanted to have a section that I could just put a few thoughts. Of course Easter made me think of all sorts of things that I was grateful for. Dave and I really tried to teach Mitch the reason we celebrate Easter during our Family nights. I think a little of it stuck. I know at different times David and I each felt the spirit confirm what we were teaching.
This also relates to special experience I had this week. It was small but special. Mitch is two and although he is a really good boy, he is still occasionally a two year old discovering his freedom. Well, I have found myself to be less patient then I want and need to be. I have raised my voice and definitely gritted my teeth lately. I could tell Mitch was bothered by my anger. I felt so bad. I prayed and prayed one night that I could be more patient and not get angry. I prayed I could be more like a sister in our ward at church who was the picture of serenity. Well, part of the answer to my prayer came when that same sister spoke in church on Sunday and spoke of how she would get angry with her children when she was a young mother and her kids were small. She said she prayed all the time for help to be calm and loving to her kids. She spoke of how Easter was about receiving help and forgiveness from the Savior. Well, I felt that the message was just for me. I love my little boys and I am going to keep praying for patience and forgiveness.

Tuesday, April 7, 2009
















So, I went far beyond my fitness level and did a five mile mud run in Monterey. It was really fun. Those that I ran with were so far ahead that they were out of my sight in the first mile but, it was fun and at least I finished. It took me 1hr and 19mins. I got a t-shirt and a metal. It was also a fun weekend with friends. I haven't really exercised since because my shoes were so muddy (and old) that I threw them out and have not gone to the store for new one. Here are some pics to prove I ran.